It's Friday at last...

... and let's renew our energies!

Ok, energy is all around us, it permeates all things and is our life source. It is as important as any other single body system because involves all of them (despite not being able to measure energy). Our energy levels are often affected by the busy lives that we lead. We sometimes feel tired or exhausted and can’t quite put our fingers on the reasons why...

... or we sometimes don’t have the motivation to make the changes that we desperately want: be that in our relationships, losing weight, going to the gym, changing our jobs, following our passions, or simply giving ourselves permission to stop, relax and feel rejuvenated again.

In life, we are presented with many different challenges and some of them are fun, exciting and make us feel alive! We wake in the morning with an excitement (not always.. I know... I know) and curiosity at the what the day will potentially bring us. Other challenges may feel like cumbersome obstacles in our lives, where decision making can be a somewhat difficult process! This can, in turn, stop us from embracing situations fully, making us feel sluggish and can keep us stuck in unhealthy patterns which don’t allow us to move forward.

Now, it may be how we approach these challenges that makes all the difference... How do you view your current challenges?

Why not trying new ways of breathing? Yes that's right! Some people are much more concerned with the next door neighbour who has bought a brand new car (given that he has been unemployed for 6 months) that they forget to live their own lives... they forget even how to breath (good job it is done for us!).

Breathe deeply.. yes that's right... many people usually breathe shallow breaths, from their chests and are actually somewhat oxygen deprived. So here you go: breathing using your diaphragm and abdominal muscles promotes relaxation and reduces tension.

Drink water... lot of it! Our bodies are nearly 80%  water... our bodies need it to work optimally. If we become ill somehow, water is a vital part of our recovery as well as remove unwanted and unnecessary materials by excreting them along with the water.

Develop and welcome new friendships (yes I know, we can't get on with everyone). At any moment in time, each and every one of us has the opportunity to bond with others as friends. We all need these emotional connection. It requires a give-and-take of trust to make relationships work, but it is well worth the effort. But hey! You might want to ask me "And IF that doesn't or isn't working?" Well, consider the costs and rewards of it? What are you getting out of it? Is it worth? Think about it..

Today is yesterday's tomorrow and today is tomorrow's yesterday.. think positively in the present tense and feel its effects... allow the power of your own positive thoughts spreading... helping to balance and heal you mentally, physically, emotionally and spiritually. This balance empowers you, making you able to achieve your dreams and keeping us healthy too. Stay in the now, as the past is over and, although it is good to have dreams, fear about the future are futile. 

Like the past, it can't be undone... but what you CAN do is to forgive yourself and others, by trying to make the right choice and making a little effort to move on in life. Sometimes what seems to be good, is bad and what seems to be bad, is good... it all depends on our perception. I once told the tale to one of my clients:

Once upon a time a farmer sent his son with a horse to graze upon the mountainside... He fell asleep and when he woke the horse was gone. He came back without it and the neighbours said "Oh what bad luck" the farmer then said "Maybe"
 
The very next day the farmer sent his son back to the mountain to seek his runaway... He found the horse and seven other wild ones and took them all home and the neighbours said "Oh what good luck" and the farmer said "Maybe"
 
The very next day the farmer sent his son to the wild horses that needed to be tamed... The first one he climbed on threw him down on the ground and as a result he broke his arm and the neighbours said "Oh what bad luck" then the farmer said"Maybe"

The very next day war was declared and the army men came through the countryside looking for soldiers but they couldn't take anyone... with a broken arm! The neighbours then said "Oh what good luck" and the farmer said "Maybe"

Life is what you make of it! The power to succeed or fail is yours alone and you alone have the responsibility to shape your life and make decisions. Nothing and no one can deny you greatness once you understand this.

Finally, I would like you to consider your free will and no one can cheat you out of ultimate success but you. More powerful then all the success slogans ever written is the realization that everyone has but one boss. That boss is you.

Above all: let's thank God, keep an open mind and feel grateful for our lives: it is the most precious asset you can have at any time!

I wish all my readers and followers a good Friday and would also like to invite you to consider what I have suggested so far.

Till next time...